There's something in Arthur Russell's sentiment "You Can Make Me Feel Bad" with the follow-up "if you want to." He's allowing his subject the option to make him feel bad.
This isn't the happiest mix, I realize. "The Ocean" by The Dodos includes the line "I want you to be/where I want you to be," written after the death of guitarist, Christopher Reimer. In "Sisters," Chicago boys, Ne-Hi sing, "You know its okay/ if I’m leaving and you don’t stay." But, it all comes down to "You & Me," in the Penny & the Quarters single, Penny let's you know, "If I never see the setting sun again/ you won't hear me cry," leaving you in a wake of relief, in the end.
So, that being said, I'm not sorry for bumming you out.